Trust is as difficult a coin to earn and it is easily lost - the trust built over a decade can be shattered in an instant by one offhanded remark or deed.
Barack, meanwhile, had listened to Toot, his white grandmother, make offhanded ethnic generalizations and even confess to her Black grandson that she sometimes felt afraid when running into a Black man on the street.
所建立的信任，能在短短一刹那，被一件小事或粗心的言语所破灭。
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们现在已经有了孩子，”她
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，但习惯胜出，结果是指责。
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